Most
of all, one must understand that they are dealing with the descendants
who have survived genocidal programs and are still in an ongoing
battle for their culture, their heritage and their basic human rights.
Failure to perceive the connections between
pre-contact lifestyle and post-contact struggle will lead only to
greater frustration and lack of success.
"Book learned" methods have
little success here. There are too many things left out of those
books and missing from the history books that were supposed to teach
us basic understanding of our own relevance in the land we call "home."
This is not to say that we must approach
the healing process from a "victim" mentality. That only
furthers the stereo-typical images and the ongoing damage.
We must approach the situation as human
beings that respect and are learning to understand what we must do
to improve our own lives and create a healthier environment for the
generations that are the future.
The healing process must be just that:
Healing. Empowering the individual to break free of destructive methods
in dealing with both the struggle and the joy that life has to offer.
At the same time, being aware of the often
overwhelming wrong or mixed-reactions from those around them, and
how to more constructively respond to situations.
Each person that recovers from or heals
after a lifetime of abuse, anger, and/or addiction becomes the better
example in their community. This example ignites the fires of choice
and recovery that reaches into the present and carries the light
that guides us on our path to the future.
Everyone
Everyone who feels or has been told
that they need to find a new personal and interpersonal approach
to their everyday life, can benefit from these workshops and
this method of counseling.
As an Employee Assistance Program,
those who work in crisis or stressful environments can greatly
benefit from these workshops and methods on every level.
Most counseling methods do not take into consideration the essential elements
of life in a First Nations/Aboriginal community. The circumstances
and history being apart from most of the surrounding communities, are
seldom considered and never taught in most colleges as a necessary
component to personal and community healing.
Lee has tailored the largest part
of his method to meet the needs of First Nations communities.
The separate history and different systems of governing, make these communities
somewhat isolated from the mainstream experiences. These experiences
are seldom understood by "outsiders".
Health care/counseling methods which
are text book-based applications do not take into consideration
the different circumstances that have shaped these communities
and the people who live in them or come from them. This leaves
the greater part of the healing not addressed.
Lee Saunders grew up closely interacting with friends and families from the
First Nations communities. His awareness of the often misunderstood
customs and processes within these communities were a driving force
behind his developing the Emotional Awareness Project.
Those Who Do the Work
Avoiding or dealing with "Burn
out"
To best meet the needs of the individuals seeking assistance, as well as
for strengthening and educating those who work in the health care field,
The Emotional Awareness methods are designed to relieve stresses, causes
and symptoms of burn-out associated with the intense level of service
many health care providers in these communities are often called upon
to provide for their communities and their own families.
After exploring different "text book" and workshop based methods
for dealing with various levels of stress and emotional dysfunction, Lee
found that most of these methods had little or no value in everyday situations
that First Nations communities and their health care workers were facing.
As he was redesigning the methods and approaches to better meet these needs,
he discovered that by making fundamental
changes in the overall program approach he was using, not only could
people from First Nations communities benefit and better cope with
their situations, but also people from non-native based communities
could more rapidly adjust to their situations, using these same methods.
The extremes presented in both community types are also different by degree,
and the method that is more reality-based rather than lab, or text
book-based, makes for greater progress and more enlightened responses
in most people who are seeking this kind of help.
"Empowering the survivor in a person,
is key to that person's progress and self-esteem. Calling someone
a 'victim', dis-empowers them, makes them feel helpless or foolish
while creating a god-like authority and wisdom in the counselor
or therapist.
"Those processes seldom make real progress from what I have seen. The treatments
go on for years where the client doesn't feel like he or she can make a reasonable
decision without the advice and input from their therapist.
When the therapist or counselor leaves for any reason, (and this happens far
too frequently, especially in First Nations communities) the client resumes
the old behaviors, not having any real tools for rebuilding their own life
on their own.
" Learning the difference between a 'victim' and a 'survivor' is key to
how much a person can do for themselves.
"There are some people in every environment who don't want to be empowered,
don't want to take control/responsibility for their life at any point. Those
people are harder to reach. But most people, given the choice of self-empowerment,
healthy self-esteem, will choose to go that route.
"I think it is important to remember that there are basically two kinds
of methods out there: One works ON a person, the other works WITH a person. The
choice is clear.
"The difference a positive approach in counseling can make is not limited
to that individual. Rather, it becomes an example in their own family, their
own community and in interactions between diverse communities.
"We all learn by example, the more choices we have, the better we can choose
how we want our life to be." ~Lee
Saunders